May is a time of change and growth. Students are wrapping up the school year, families are adjusting to new routines and many of us are looking ahead to summer. It’s also Mental Health Awareness Month, which reminds us of the importance of connection and belonging in a young person’s life. As a board member at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Rhode Island and someone who has benefited deeply from mentorship, I know how powerful these relationships can be. 

Some of the most influential people in my life weren’t assigned mentors – they were teachers, coaches, neighbors and colleagues who naturally stepped into that role. I learned so much from these individuals – traits and skills that have made me the person that I am today.  I learned leadership, empathy, compassion and the desire to help make a difference. They helped shape my values, guided me through tough times and celebrated my growth. These “natural mentors” are all around us, and often they don’t realize the impact they’re having. 

At BBBSRI, they work to support and strengthen these natural mentorships. They know that young people thrive when they feel seen, supported and connected – and that’s exactly what mentoring does. In fact, 100% of mentees in BBBSRI programs advanced to the next grade last year. Parents also reported major improvements in mental health (91%), increased self-confidence (86%), and avoidance of the juvenile justice system (97%). And every single mentor said the experience was positive for them, too. 

We also know from national data that mentored youth are 20% more likely to attend college than their non-mentored peers. These relationships matter. 

If you or your child are in a natural mentoring situation – maybe there’s a coach, family friend or neighbor already playing that role – I encourage you to consider enrolling formally with BBBSRI. Their programs enhance and support those existing relationships by providing professional case management, access to free or low-cost activities and opportunities for scholarships, financial assistance, workforce development and more. 

Mentorship doesn’t have to start from scratch, but with the right support, it can go even further. Let’s help our youth succeed – together. If you’d like more info about BBBSRI, visit BigsRI.org.   

Rhonda Lapham is market president of iHeartMedia Providence and a board member of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Rhode Island.